My (Slightly Less) Public Breakup

June 23, 2013

So, I’ve a bit of sad news for you today. Me and Bryarly broke up.

The reason? Pretty simple really, and exactly the one that you’d expect too: distance. Everyone talks about how hard long distance relationships are to maintain, and although we certainly had a good crack at ours, in the end it just became too difficult for the both of us.

As far as breakups go, ours was just as rational as it was emotional, it was very carefully considered, and we ended on very good terms too. Both of us just wanted the best for each other, and I’m honestly very proud of how we handled the whole thing. It was intense, so naturally we weren’t able to revert to being best-buddies instantly, but I’ve high hopes that we’ll remain close friends in the future. Which, yes, is the kind of thing that you’re meant to say in these situations, but that doesn’t make it any less true.

After making our relationship public, Bryarly and I were pretty overwhelmed with how lovely you were about the whole thing. We were both braced for hate, and instead we got support. With that, my hope is that you’ll be considerate enough to do the same with this news. Relationships are delicate things, and the decision to make ours public was always going to be a risk. Obviously I can’t stop you from taking sides, or making assumptions, or reading into things – it’s all natural human curiosity. All I ask is that you keep those thoughts to private conversations, not public posts (I’m looking at you, Tumblr) and that you give us the space to move on so that we don’t have to feel any worse about what we’ve already been through.

Thanks a lot for reading. Here’s to the future and all that :) And if you’d like to read Bryarly’s POV on this, she wrote her own blog post which you can read here.

Lots of love,

Charlie

  • billie

    I am wishing you both all the best.

  • Toastface Killah

    The long-distance thing is tricky. You both look to be handling it maturely at least.

  • Terri

    You can handle it. You have our support. :)
    It’s great that you think you can stay friends, that can be tough.

  • Anon

    We supported you then, we will support you now.

  • Sarah

    Keep your head up Charlie! As cliche as it is, time heals all wounds.

  • Lauren

    Charlie I love you! Your followers are always here, you know that x

  • Zoe

    I’m sorry, Charlie. You and Brylary were a very good couple. But, long distance is hard. I’m glad you two are remaining friends though :) I’m sure everything will be fine. Maybe you’ll get back together, or maybe the both o you will find someone else. I know I have unrealistic hopes for the two of you, but, it’s fun to dream. I wish you the best of luck and lots of love! ~ Zoe

  • Anya

    Hope you’re okay <333333

  • march

    you guys are both lovely and I hope you’re happy, regardless of your relationship status.

  • Anonymous

    I’m really sorry to hear about this. I’m glad that you introduced us to Bryarly, because she’s lovely, and I really wish you guys the best.

  • http://lazyobsession.blogspot.com/ Lazy Obsession Blog

    Awh sorry Charlie :( but I’m happy for you in the sense that it was a clean breakup and as you said, ended on good and rational terms. I hope yous can stay friends, you were an awesome couple, from what we’ve seen!

  • HollyHogwarts

    Thank you for telling us what happened. I wish you both all the best in the future. *hugs*

  • manolo

    I hope youse both find happiness in life, and you two lovely people have got an awful lot of equally lovely supporters, so hopefully there’ll be no hate. I’m sorry about the break up either way, though, Stay strong guys.

  • Maddie

    Love you Charlie!

  • Carina

    I’m sorry to hear that Charlie. I hope you twocan continue to be good friends. I will support the both of you! Best of luck!

  • Hannah

    hope you’re feeling okay, stay strong Charlie :)

  • Jenna

    awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Im sorry x

  • @belatalbots

    i’m so sorry about this charlie :(

  • mathilde yo

    very sorry to hear about this </3 hope you and bryarly are okay :)

  • Anonymous

    Sorry to hear Charlie, all my best wishes to you both x

  • Rachel Emily

    Awww Charlie, hope you’re ok, we’re all here!:’) x

  • Glenn Dallas

    For people who’ve never been in long-distance relationships, they don’t realize there are actually three forces in the relationship: you, your partner, and the distance. More often than not, it’s the distance to blame, not one person or the other.

    I wish you both all the best in the future. As someone who has been through the gauntlet of long-distance (unsuccessfully), I can attest that friendship in the future is most definitely a possibility. Good luck.

  • Gary Rivera

    maybe now it’s not the right moment! patience!

  • geedee

    All the best to both of you!

  • Sweet_Revenge

    Aww sad to hear Charlie :( still supporting you both no matter what though :) xoxo

  • Laura

    Xxx loves

  • emma :)

    Aww I hope you guys still remain good friends. Love you <3

  • Jacan

    HUGS bro. I’d like to say that we’re here for you, but I can’t imagine that’d be of any help. What I can imagine, though, is that people generally (probably) won’t give you a hard time. WE ALL THINK THAT YOU’RE GREAT.

    Hope that getting over this isn’t too hard. Smiles. :)

  • Chloepot96

    I have so much love for you both! Long distance is so hard and I wish you both the best happiness for the future <3

  • Connor

    We’re all here for you, Charlie:) And hey, maybe we’ll get some kind of break-up album about it:L

  • Sarah

    Thanks for introducing us to Bryarly, Charlie. You are both still really great.

  • Sarah Surace

    I love you guys no matter what. So sorry to hear about your break-up, but I can understand why it happened. I’m here for you both :)

  • Ellie

    I’m sorry Charlie, I hope you’re alright :)

  • Silvia

    I don’t know why is this made into a such a big fuss. It’s really unusual that you let people know this, your personal stuff, that isn’t really their business. I admire your courage for letting people know about what’s happening in your life, but really, it shouldn’t be such a big deal.

  • Maggie

    We got your back Charlie, and we all love you very much. :)

  • Olly Taylor

    I’m so sorry to hear that Charlie! I’m glad you two ended on good terms though :) WE ALL LOVE AND CARE ABOUT YOU! Things can only look up :)) <3

  • Catie

    :( awhh sorry Charlie

  • J

    Aww, best wishes to you both. I hope internet people will be respectful.

  • Olivia

    It’s too bad but I’m glad you ended it well, thanks you for trusting us enough with this info!

  • Emma

    I’m so sorry Charlie :( Hope you’re okay x

  • Finnian

    Best wishes for the both of you. I know that you both still care deeply
    for one another and will still remain very close friends, you seem to
    have had a wonderful relationship filled with love and devotion but
    ultimately this breakup is logical and is probably better for the both
    of you in the long run. Long distance (particularly inter-continental)
    relationships must be very hard for both parties.

    Love always,

    FW

  • Berri

    I wish both of you the best.

  • Guest

    I’m sorry to hear that, but it sounds like it ended on the best possible note in a situation like this. Best wishes to both of you. :)

  • Anonymous

    I’m sorry to hear that, but it sounds like it ended on the best possible note in a situation like this. Best wishes to both of you. :)

  • Malu

    awh, charlie! all the best to both of you! :/

  • Falling_Slowly

    Oh, Charlie. :( Sending you both lots of support and all the best.

  • Rachel MacNewt

    I’m so sorry Charlie. If you need to talk or anything I’m here :(

  • J

    There’s either a lot of people called Hannah in the comments, or one Hannah has a lot to say :P

  • Ella

    I’m very sorry Charlie, time heals all! Stay strong<3

  • Katie

    The best of wishes to your both, thanks for sharing with us Charlie x

  • Chloe

    I’m so sorry Charlie!! I’m sure everyone understands your decision! Long distance is always very difficult I had a go at it. No matter your reasons you always have support of your fans/followers whatever you call us. :)

  • Cande

    All my best to both of you!

  • Tim Dornaus

    Sad to hear. And a brave thing to make public. Similar thing happened to me. Last year in April, me and my two and something year gf broke up becuase she had finished school and was going to leave for studying in the US (we lived in Austria). We knew that this was coming the whole two and smtg years, but up until a few month before her leaving, we didn’t want to face the problem. We then decided, that we both didn’t think that long distance will work, so we ended it beforhands.
    In a nutshell: long distance is a relationship killer. I (and surely many more of your fans and freinds) will know that

  • Katri

    I’m so glad you shared this with us, going public with it. But I wish you both the greatest luck in the future.

    Stay you:)

  • Hind

    Its nice to see such integrity. good luck to you both<3

  • Kathy

    That is literally the most considerate thing I have read all month. I don’t know if you’re aware of this, Charlie, but you’re pretty inspiring!

  • Harriet

    Aww Charlie :( I’ve recently broken up with my boyfriend (we also were long distance for a year), so I know how you feel. Just know that you have the love and support of your subscribers <3

  • Natalia McAlister

    I’m gonna cry. Although I do not know you personally I thought you were a wonderful couple from the moment you announced it. I strongly believe you are meant to be together but I respect your decision and I just want you to know that looking up to a relationship like yours was very important to me when I was feeling down. This is very sad but I’m happy because I’m sure this was the best. Best wishes from Uruguay, you have amazing fans here who will always support you.

    Lots of love,

    Natalia

  • ALiCe__M

    Nothing is a full stop, nothing, ever (except death).

  • Abbie

    I hope you’re okay :(

  • Georgia

    Aww I hope your both okay:) x

  • Yong-yong Li

    never expected this. You have so many people who will support you. I find it very sad but I’m happy that it wasn’t a bad break-up. I wish both of you all the luck in the world. lots of love from the Netherlands

  • Gloria Weber

    I am happy that you two handled this so well. Best for the both of you :) <3

  • Ciara

    Hope you’re both okay♥ I respect and admire how long your relationship lasted, and how long you managed to keep it a secret! Hope you guys forever remain on good terms :)

  • http://www.thiefree.net/ Thiefree

    Sweetheart. It’s never easy, but it sounds like you’ve both handled it well. I wish you both the best. X

  • Skye

    I’m sending love to the both of y’all <3

  • Nichole

    Both you and Bryarly are wonderful people and I’m glad that both of you are proud with the way you handled the situation, and I’m certain you’ll both receive the same amount of support as you did when going public last year.

  • AoNoTenshi

    I hope you had a good run, luck to the both of you <3
    I know how hard long distance relationships are

  • Kate

    I’m sorry Charlie!

  • Morgansmithh19864

    Keep your chin up Charlie, everything happens for a reason. We love you both anyway.

  • Samm

    cheer up, charlie <3

  • Kayla

    Wishing the best to both of you <3

  • Halley

    I literally cried when I read this because my boyfriend and I broke up two weeks ago because of our long distance relationship. I know what your going through, sweetheart, and I’m sending loads of hugs your way. I’m so glad you ended on good terms though! Take all the time you need to feel better, and just know that all of your YouTube family is here for you.

  • Eloisa Dudok

    aww u r so cute nat!

  • Ginger

    Awhh :( Good luck to the both of you, I hope you both won’t feel too sad :c xxx

  • Steve Peters

    Charlie, even though we have never met, I feel I know a little about you from your videos and other postings and I am saddened by this news. I know how difficult long distance relationships can be and I feel that you are a strong person and will come through this just fine. I wish the best to you and Bryarly. Take care.

  • Live Stangeland

    It’s good to see that you both are handling this so well, sad to see you break up though you were such a cute couple :) I hope people will be as supportive as when you made it public, the last thing you need right now is people hassling the both of you.
    Well anyway I wish the best of everything to the both of you <3

  • Molly

    Wow this must be really hard for the both of you. Wishing you both the best and I hope that you will be happier after this because I’m told it gets better. Love ya both xxx <3

  • Dinma

    I love you both, and I’m so sorry, but always keep in mind; good always arises from the bad things in our lives. Yes, you aren’t with Bryarly anymore but you are still friends with her, so she’s still in your life. You will always have the support of both of ya’lls fans, any hate that may come your way are from people who don’t truly care for your happiness. Stay amazing love.

  • Audrey

    Sending lots of love and internet hugs to you during this difficult time.

  • Rachael

    I really loved you two so much… :’( I hope you still remain great friends, because you guys (I though) were perfect.. <3 <3 I wish the best for both of you

  • Alexandra

    Well done making the decision – must’ve been tough – and well done writing this. Distance is difficult.

    It’s a bit relieving too because if you guys couldn’t make it I don’t feel as bad about my own long-distance relationship not working out, haha. Is that bad? We did live in the same country, though, just on opposite ends. Apparently that was challenging enough.

    Anywayyy, what am I saying. There’s nothing I can say that’ll make much of a difference, really.

    I think this calls for some listmaking. Yes. When in doubt, make lists.

    Here’s a list of films I watch when my heart is especially famished and need a love boost from epic fictional romance:
    The Amazing Spider-Man
    50/50
    Peter Pan (2004)
    Beauty & The Beast (anything Disney)
    Howl’s Moving Castle
    Only You
    Sleepless in Seattle
    Slumdog Millionaire
    Waiting For Forever
    The Yellow Handkerchief
    Zombieland

    If you’re the type of person that repel everything romantic and lovey-dovey after a breakup and need something else entirely this list is probably better:
    Fight Club
    Detachment
    Narnia: The Witch and The Lion
    True Grit (anything by the Coen brothers, really)
    My Neighbor Totoro
    V For Vendetta
    Simple Simon/I rymden finns inga känslor
    The Magic of Belle Isle
    Paper Man
    Intouchables (really really really good)
    The Soloist
    Everything Is Illuminated

    Yes. I think that’ll do.

  • Ayla

    Wishing you both the best Charlie.

  • Lauren C

    I’m glad that you two are handling this so nicely. Hopefully the rest of the internet does the same!

  • lyds

    its a shame to hear, but i am glad you have ended it on such good terms! <3

  • Greeblygreebly

    Sorry, that’s always rough.

  • Josephine

    I know exactly how that trying to become good friends again after a relationship feels. It’s not easy, but it’s worth the effort!
    I wish you lots of strength to go through this and I think all of us will understand and support you no matter what :)

  • Caroline

    I thought you got engaged from the tweet. I know a bit of a wild assumption..:) I’m sorry for you guys. :(

  • Hanna Yoon

    I’ve gotta admit, it also saddens me as a viewer of your guys’ videos that you two broke up but I also know as a viewer that you guys are very rational and there is no doubt that it was well thought through. I’m sure you guys are sad too but we love that you guys are so honest to us and genuine about whatever it is you guys do. Best wishes that all turns out well!

  • JEWheeler

    Best wishes for two very talented people.

  • Hazel

    I’m sorry to hear about this, but it sounds like you’ve handled it very well.
    Lots of love, Hazel xx

  • Sabina

    <3

  • Josefin

    I am sorry it had to end, but I hope that you are both alright and have friends and family to take care of you.

    Love

  • Tatiana

    I really can’t say much because know nothing about things like this (have never even been in a relationship), but… Still, I wish you both to recover soon and remain good friends at least. Be happy, no matter what!

  • Kay

    Woah. I did not see that one coming. Good luck to both of you. You both are wonderful people and role models and I’m just happy that you both are still friends. :)

  • Amy

    <3 I'm so sorry Charlie. Long distance relationships are super tough, I know from experience, and I'm sure you guys both will be able to recover soon, because you're both wonderful people, I wish you guys both the best of luck.

  • Abzdudy

    It’s so nice to see how you’ve dealt with it so well and so carefully. Best of luck to both of you!

  • Amy

    I’m really sorry to hear this and I hope both of you are doing well. It’s good to know you guys are still friends

  • Megan

    <3 Sorry Charlie, glad that you're both still friends. You're right you can't go back to immediately being the best of friends but, gradually things will improve and get better, trust me I have experience. It sucks for a bit, but you both decided it was the right thing to do. Hope you are both doing well, and hopefully everything will be fine between you. Best of luck xxx <3

  • Abandon Ship

    Well, I guess this is it. Time to call an “Abandon Ship”

    Personally, I am very sad that this happened. Maybe its weird that your relationship made me happy but it was amazing because, despite all the brokenness of the world that we all face on a daily basis, something truly beautiful could exist. It really was a beacon of hope for me. Charlie: the wallflower turned life liver and Bryarly: the nerd-girl turned badass.

    But I guess I’ll just be happy that it existed while it did because I never would have found Bryarly’s channel if it wasn’t you, Charlie, and I am so glad I did. And I suppose all good things must come to an end or how would we learn to appreciate them?

    So, Charlie, I wish you and Bryarly the best of luck on your future endeavors and will continue to watch both of you channels, and enjoy them immensely.

    “Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end….”

  • Jody

    You’re both great! Best wishes for the future :)

  • color-bandits

    I’m glad you’re both okay, well, okay as you can be. We’re all here for you.

  • Jem

    we are sorry to hear that you have broken up. but that is by far the most rational and delicatly written break up explanation I have ever heard. and as we were with how this realtionship started I do hope we can be just as supportive now that it has ended. may all be will for you charlie. these things are rough and we still care. for both of you.

  • Emmy

    You should be glad that you got to spend the time that you did with a lovely girl like Bryarly. As sad as it is that it’s over, be happy that it had ever begun. Hope you feel better Charlie and don’t forget to be awesome :)

  • Grayson

    Charlie, I love you!!!!! All will be well. Best wishes to the both of you:)

  • Kalee

    I hope that you’re doing well, Charlie. Of course I’m disappointed to hear about the breakup, but I’m sure that you’ve thought through this with Bryarly, and whatever the circumstances are, I (along with most of your other fans) will be there to support you. I’m hoping that you’re not too distraught because I can’t bear the thought of either of you upset, but if you are, it’ll be okay. Relationships & breakups are hard, but I think you and Bryarly are mature enough to come out of this as friends. Hope you feel better with lots of thoughts tea and happiness to come. :)

  • gashmachine

    sorry to hear that, charlie. its easy to break up on good terms, staying on good terms and becoming real friends is that hard bit. take it slow, because things can turn bitter quickly. its easier to turn love into hate than into friendship. sorry for the over personal, gloomy advice haha, but honestly, i wish you both the best x

  • Megan

    I myself am in a long distance relationship right now, and my boyfriend is moving yet again, this time to England, in the next few months. This (your blog) saddens me mostly because it proves what everyone is always telling me. The fact that long distance is extremely difficult. I do understand how hard it is to have a relationship like that, and all anyone can do is try their best. Do not be discouraged.

  • Anthi

    Don’t worry- while many couples cannot handle the distance (understandably), a lot can! Just keep trying- I myself am in a ldr, and my boyfriend and I are handling it wonderfully :)

  • Anne

    I don’t see how anyone could send hate for you two breaking up. Yeah, ya’ll were cute. But it’s a relationship and relationships sometimes end. To be honest I’m just glad that ya’ll decided to tell us. Really kind of you :) And I wish the best for you!

  • Tink

    I’m sorry to hear it. You’re both good people and I hope you will remain close friends as well in the future. Love Tink

  • sindels

    It’ll be okay, I promise.

  • fairy

    I just want to say that the “let’s stay friends” thing really works sometimes. After being nearly two years with my boyfriend we broke up (a year ago I think) and he’s still one of my closest friends. Good Luck with it (:

  • Lia

    Hey Charlie, sorry to hear about your relationship not working out. You must be hurting a lot now, but I bet knowing that you have a ton of supporters rooting for you has to help a little bit. It will get better with time. I hope you’re both doing okay. Just wanted to say I love your channel so much and always look forward to seeing your videos. You’re so creative and it’s always exciting when I notice you’ve posted another one. Hang in there! :)

  • Joseph Miller

    Love you, Charlie. You and Bryarly both seem like really wonderful people, but distance is so often an insurmountable barrier. It hurts now, but it will get better, and you will be stronger.

  • Vicky

    sorry about the situation, but you know your fans won’t be inconsiderate to either of you. Thankyou for keeping us in mind; we love you both.

  • Jessica

    I’m so sorry to hear that but it’ll be okay :) You’ll both be fine, I promise! As long as you’re both okay, thats all that matters :) x

  • Anonymous

    I’m very sorry to hear that! Relationships end, and if people get mad at you two or say rude things, they don’t care about you at all. I wish you and Bryarly the best and hope you two manage to stay friends.

  • Roman

    *hugs both of you* I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad you’re both ok and still friends, and wish you both all the best for the future :D

  • Batik

    I wish you both the best x

  • Allie

    (many internet hugs)

  • Mina Christensen

    Aww that’s to bad :/ best of luck to both of you though!

  • John Vargas

    It is very sad to end a relationship since to begin one we always pick someone special and to let go not matter the reason is always very difficult. Wish you both the best and just hope people know the break up is between you and her, not us the viewers. Relationships are private and between two individuals. Feel better and see you at VidCon!

  • cloud

    awwww this is so sad D:

  • Kim

    :(

  • http://wittywhimsicality.blogspot.com/ Darcy Day

    You wouldn’t be a young twenty-something without a little heart break. So sorry things didn’t go as planned. The best thing about love is that it is resilient. Keep you chin up, Charlie!
    Best,
    -Darcy

  • Payton

    Sending good vibes to both of you, and glad you’re on good terms. You deserve the very best and I know everything will work out for both of you in the end, however that may be.

  • wendy

    Hi Charlie.

    You are a very young and intelligent young man and I have no doubt that there will be great things ahead of you.

    I wish you both the best.

    Lots of love,

    A big fan

  • maceymaysee

    So sorry to hear this, man. Hang in there! Time is a good healer.

    Love you (like I love desserts and owls)

  • Angie

    I’m sorry Charlie! Feel better~

  • Cat

    Aww, I’m so sad for you. I hope y’all can still be friends and both do supermassive, important, wonderful things.

  • Molly

    In a way, I’m sad for both of you, but in a way, I’m also happy for both you, that you are both free to move on and do what feels right. And I’m proud of both of you for understanding what had to happen and making good decisions about it. Best of luck in everything you do!

  • Jennifer

    I’m sorry to hear this Charlie. The sheer size of our universe really is it’s greatest thing, and it’s biggest downfall.

  • Mira

    I’m sorry to hear it :(
    I’m glad that you ended on a good note, though, and now both of you are free to find an even better match for yourselves :)
    Keep looking up and here’s to the future, as you said!
    Love,
    Mira

  • Isobel

    Charlie, I am really sorry that it ended and I promise you that the minority out there who will make assumptions are just people feeling bad for themselves and trying to find someone to hate. I hope you maintain a strong friendship in time, and you must remember that life does eventually move on! Keep looking up. :)

    -Isobel

  • SezaBelle<3

    DEAR CHARLIE,

    YOU ARE A WONDERFUL BLOKE AND NO MATTER WHAT YOU DESERVE HAPPINESS. i’M SO GLAD TO SEE YOU AND BRYARLY ENDED THINGS WELL, IT REALLY SHOWS HOW MATURE YOU BOTH ARE AND i’M THRILLED TO SEE YOU ARE TAKING IT SO WELL. THE HARDEST PART ABOUT ALL THIS IS I HAVE TO ASSUME YOU REALLY ARE TAKING IT ALRIGHT BECAUSE YOU’RE HARDLY GOING TO POST TEARY VIDEOS OF AN EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN. BUT SHOULD THIS EVER BE THE CASE, YOU MUST KNOW THE GALLONS OF SUPPORT YOU HAVE BEHIND YOU AND THAT WE STILL LOVE YOU KNOW MATTER WHAT HAPPENS. WE’LL STILL LOVE BRYARLY, JUST BECAUSE SHE LOVED YOU. KEEP SMILING.

    YOU’RE A QUALI-TEA GUY! :)
    LOVE SARAH
    :)

  • fictionalfoes

    Break ups are hard. I’m sorry. I love both you and Bryarly and wish you guys the best in future

  • Ingus Macats

    Good luck with all that you do :)

  • Cece

    you can do so much better , she wasn’t even that good-looking you even can get a model !

  • jullian

    charlie, you can do better. bryaly wasnt even hot.

  • Tanya

    I’m so sorry to hear this Charlie, but I’m glad you shared this with us, and we’ll support you through anything. I’m already getting slightly pissed off at the people in dlthe comments saying that ‘you can do better than bryarly’ but all I’m gonna say is that we love and support you, whatever happens, and that I wish you both the best in life. Who knows what will happen in the future <3

  • Maren

    I hope the best for both of you! :) Break-ups is hard, but you’ll not be sad forever!
    Nobody knows what the future brings, but in the end everything will be fine :)
    Hugs to both of you!
    -Maren

  • Claire

    i am so happy so i can have you now yayyy!!! i hope you are okay and you can move on from this (to me). someday we will meet and fall in love have lots of babies ASDFGHJKL yeah but i hope you are okay :)

  • kayla

    I’m glad you guys ended it in good terms(: I wish you guys the best of luck.

  • Annie

    This is creepy. Get a life.

  • Annie

    You are a disgusting person.

  • ProNorden

    Truly sorry about your breakup.
    But .. .Were we in any way responsible? Does this mean you and/or Bryarly will stop loving us any more? …. and ..who gets us? Do we have to choose between the two of you ?

    It’s not fair.
    Why can’t things ever just be the way they were?
    I’m sad.

  • Toni Wilkes

    Incredibly sorry to hear this Charlie although I am glad that it ended on good terms. I hope you’re doing as well as you can be during this time and as you said, here’s to the future!!

  • Leo

    Awh Charlie <3. I hope everything goes okay between you two, and I hope you feel happy!

  • Lacarian

    We don’t know each other, but a warm hug never caused any damage. So: *hugs*

  • Sarah

    Really sorry it got complicated…
    On the other hand, you both seem to be really mature about it, and I think it proves how much respect you have for each other. It would’ve been better if it hadn’t ended, but I’m happy it could have ended much, much worse. Wish you both all the best, and courage !

  • Zack Huberman

    Charlie! I’m a huge fan, and from what I’ve seen, with your funniness, and your charismatic personality, I think that you shouldn’t feel so bad. You might of had a great time with her, but if she wasn’t the right one, the saying goes, “There are other fish in the sea!”. You seem to be very mature about this break-up and I hope you to stay good mates!

  • Kathryn Zeh

    People come in our lives for a reason by some unrecognizable force of fate. I’m sure the both of you did what was best with what detail was given. No matter what, both of you should not forget to be awesome and keep doing what you love. Best wished to the both of you and whatever future paths you both shall take.

  • Mo

    I’m so sad to hear about your guys’ breakup! You two were truly lovely together and I’m very sorry things didn’t work out. :(
    Please remember that your true fans (which includes myself) will definitely not send you any hate or judgement regarding this breakup; only love and support. <3
    I sincerely hope you two will be able to remeber and cherish the wonderful time you had together and stay close! Best of wishes and lots of love! :)

  • Rachel

    It’s okay, Charlie! Honestly, it happens. It’s hard to be that far away, and if this is what you guys have to do to still be in good terms, that’s just what has to happen! I hope you two can still be great friends! You were so cute together as a couple, but you can be just as cute as good friends eventually! Don’t worry about any hateful comments, just look at all the amazing ones below. Hope all works out for you both, individually and together! You can still cherish the times you’ve had together as a couple and make new memories as friends! Keep positive! Love ya both!

  • Kotai :)

    I’m just happy that you’ll both still be friends! It shows how mature you both are and I for one support you both no matter what! Long distance relationships are extremely hard anyway, i should know, so it’s not like anyone should have anything disrespectful to say

  • Charley

    And you have the right to judge because?…

  • fayfaye xoxo :D

    awww i send my love to you and bryarly, break ups are hard but their are plenty of girls around the world, you’ll find someone prettier and nicer

  • Siv

    1. The first I thought was “noooooooo”
    2. I hope you manage to stay friends, yes!!
    3. … I read all of this in your voice, hehehe!

  • Hannah

    I’m sorry that it didn’t work out but I’m glad that you dealt with it so well and ended on good terms – I am proud to watch two mature yet awesome people like you on YouTube! I hope you stay good friends, but I’ll love and support you both whatever happens. I really appreciate that you let us know and I wish you all the best :) *Internet hugs*

  • ageofthenerd

    I’m sorry Charlie, you looked really cute together. I hope that everything will be better for both of you.

  • WiZzZzZardd

    So sorry to hear that Charlie same here distance relationships are harder than everyone realises hey mine was only round 80 miles distance and it didn’t work. Good luck to the future to both of you and I hope you guys remain good friends x

  • Kayla

    Sorry to hear that. Hope you’re doing okay :)

  • Tim

    I’m sorry to hear the news, Charlie. Breakups are difficult enough as it is, but I’ve been in that same position a time or two before, so I understand just how much more difficult that can be. I’m very happy to hear, however, that the pair of you ended things amicably and positively, and I hope that whatever comes your way in the future will make you both happy, because you both deserve that. :]

  • Lu

    It’s sad … but it happens … i hope you get better soon, you deserves the best ; ). Here in my country (Brasil) we speak in sad moments: get up, shake the dust and gives a comeback over. : )

  • Angie

    Aw :( I hope you find someone you can love like you loved her or maybe your paths might cross again someday

  • Jonah Glover

    That’s really sad buddy. Break ups are hard. My bro-hugs go out to you.

  • Katie

    Here’s a hug for you *big hug* break ups are hard but everything will be okay in the end. We love you Charlie!

  • Kveylet

    I hate the thought of you two being on unfriendly terms. You were a brilliant couple, and I sincerely hope you continue to be brilliant friends. I sympathise, though I don’t have the experience to allow me to empathise, and I really hope that you are both happier in the long run.

  • Jessica

    Much love to both of you <3 you're both beautiful people

  • Eleonora

    It’s a sign of a good relationship (and two good people) when after the breakup you don’t find yourself on either person’s side.

    You guys did good for each other and for others when you were together, so well done realising that it’s best to now be apart to keep doing good. I hope it wasn’t too painful to go through and that you’re already back to enjoying life by yourself or with anyone new.

    And of course, I’m posting this on both blog posts for par condicio :)

  • Eleonora

    That’s really silly, they seemed incredibly well matched!

  • Anon

    I’m sorry, Charlie.

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  • Dean

    Wow, can you actually have a little bit of respect? The guy just broke up with his girlfriend and you’re insensitive enough to spam a load of irrelevant shit. Jesus christ, get a heart.

  • Katia

    It called a joke. Do you honestly think Charlie (of ALL people (about 6 years on YouTube now) would be affected deeply by that? I got a chuckle of it at least.

  • Anonymous

    sorry to hear that. love you both <3

  • Rebecca

    Charlie I’m genuinely sorry about your breakup I’m sure it hard but it does get better. I’m also sorry about some of the posts below don’t let any of them affect you

  • Emma

    I’m sorry Charlie. :(

  • Samantha

    I’m truly sorry, Charlie. :/ I think it’s really mature of the both of you to end the relationship on good grounds, and even though I thought you two were really cute together, I understand why you decided to break up. Long distance relationships are very difficult. Hopefully there aren’t any/many rude or uncomfortable comments, but if there are, I hope you ignore anyone who can’t respect you and your decisions.
    You’re a kind, smart, humble, and talented person and I know you will find another girl when you’re ready. :) I wish both of you the best!

  • jane

    Awww no :’(

  • Helen

    That is so sad, I am truly sorry Charlie.

  • Sabrina

    Oh no, Charliee…. I’m sorry. You 2 were the cutest couple. =[[

  • Coffee_Cat

    Wow I’m sorry to hear that you guys were really cute together :(

  • Bethany

    Awh, Charlie, I’m really sorry, you guys were a great couple but you are right, long distance relationships are hard and so are break ups. Hope you are okay and I give hugs to you <3

  • Ellie

    M very sorry to hear that.Hope you will be okey soon and…one hug for you.

  • Lydia

    Im sorry Charlie.. Big hugs to you!

  • Katekatecupecake

    It’s okay Charlie! I support you as well as Bryarly! These things are hard. But I stil love both of you nonetheless. :)

  • Jennifer

    Aww! It’s okay you guys :) Kudos to you for being still being best buddies :D I’m proud of and support both of you.

  • Katie Walsh

    I’m so sorry to hear the news Charlie. I know you must be hurting right now, so remember that the best has yet to come for you. Sometimes good things have to end to make way for something wonderful. I can’t give you a hug through the computer, so ask Alex to give you one from me. xx :)

  • Wickedlace

    I went through a very similar breakup this past year. Always sucks. Xo

  • Anga

    Hugs to both of you :)

  • CoolsmurfJo

    :( xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx from me though Charlie

  • bob

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  • Grace

    I hope you’re okay Charlie! Lots of hugs from us!

  • Emily

    Im sorry but long distance relationships are hard im sure it was for the best

  • Liv

    So sorry to hear that Charlie. Hope you are ok :( Lots of love xxx

  • Anonymous

    I’m in a long distance relationship (1050 miles apart) for almost exactly the same amount as the two of you were, about 2 years. I know how hard it gets spending your entire days online, pretending to be next to the person you love when you haven’t seen him/her for 5 months. It breaks my heart to witness the Ioveliest youtube couple split, but I fully understand and admire your decision and empathise with you both. Stay strong and brave. You’ll be friends for life, I’ve got not even the smallest doubt about that.

  • Morgan

    I’m a little late to the party, but I wanted to take a minute and thank you. I wanted to thank you for being honest with us. You didn’t have to tell us you had broken up. You didn’t even have to tell us that you were in a relationship. But you did, and that’s a pretty big deal (at least to me). It takes a lot of guts to open up your very personal relationship to the whole world, and even more guts to tell that same world the relationship is over. I’m grateful to the both of you for respecting us enough to keep us in the loop, and I’m going to try to respect you enough to follow your wishes. This will be the last I speak of your relationship. I won’t gossip about it, I won’t fight about it, I’ll even try my best to ignore the nasty comments (though that one might be a toughie). Because if you respect me us enough to keep us informed on your own personal events, then the least I can do is show you the same respect back by doing as you ask. Thank you for sharing this with us, Charlie.

  • Ellie

    Sorry to hear this news Charlie, thank you for keeping us in the loop. Hope you are okay. If it didn’t work long distance, then it was probably for the best. Gad it ended on good terms because you are really good as friends :) xxx

  • Jackie

    Omg u too were so cute together but dont fret this just means that your true match is still waaiting out there. STAY STRONG!!! <3

  • Alison

    *cries for you both*

  • krish

    I’m glad you’re both okay, Charlie c: x

  • Tiaana

    I hope you and Bryarly are doing okay Charlie. I give you support and lots of hugs! But, since I can’t give you real hugs, (I live in the US) Please tell Alex to give you one for me! Thanks Alex! =P Good luck Charlie and Bryarly! Stay strong, stay brilliant!

    ~Tiaana

  • Xera Lorelei

    Well I can say is best of luck to the both of you and don’t lose touch with one another, you wont be the first or last to have to call things off because the world is two big so I hope both of you are happy and continue to be.

  • SirDalek

    Charlie… You are one of the most mature people on this funny little planet, and I consider it an honour to share it with you.

  • Julia

    Charlie! You got support from us then, and you’ll get it also now! :) We are your fans, and we truly love you and we will stand for you w/ your every decision. We can cry with you and smile with you. We were happy for you guys being together, and we will be sad, but we move on – just like you! :) Lots of love, Julia from Poland.

  • Girl

    It’s crazy. I just went through the same thing.. distance. And it’s kinda comforting to see that someone as awesome and witty and etc! as you shared the same experience with me :D haha, CHEERSSS. Best of luck to all of us :’)

  • legojuli

    Well, I read this a bit late, but better late than never, right? I’m kinda sad now, but I’m happy for you guys that you broke up in probably the best possible way and don’t blame each other for it, that would’ve been horrible because I like you both :) I wish you all the best for the future and dftba! xx

  • Beth

    Aww I am so sorry to hear that! Breakups always suck :(

  • Wellfredandgeorge

    I hope Bryarly still loved the song xxxx stay strong

  • Mada

    Happens.

    Wish you the best for your future

  • Audrey

    i love you…you should go out with me instead :D

  • Patrick

    there is a light that never goes out…… and you guys are the epitome of that. :-) Love always

  • Neta Tropp

    Hey Charlie. I’m so sorry about your breakup, and I really hope you get through it OK. Even when we rationalize the breakup, it takes an emotional tole, and I hope that you will continue to look at it rationally and not do anything you’ll regret in the heat of the moment. Keep your head on your shoulders, and keep it high. We all love you very much.

    <3

  • Guest

    Hey Charlie, my boyfriend and i recently broke up. It was also long distance, though there wasn’t an ocean between us. Even though i know it was for the best and we ended on good terms, it’s still a rough adjustment to make. I find it comforting knowing that there are other people out there going through the same thing. Best of luck to you

  • Neyu

    Aw Charlie I’m so sorry. Long distance relationships are very difficult but its awesome that you guys have made it this far. Its really great to hear that you guys ended on good terms. We all love you both and wish only for what’s best for you guys. I know its a tough time now but things will get better. Were here supporting you guys all the way!

  • Samantha

    Sorry to hear it. I’ve been fans of both of yours for a while now and I wish you both the best- I admire the creativity of both of you in all that you do.
    Best of luck.

  • CaglaMcDonnell ;)

    That is really sad :’( You two were perfect together :( but now I have a chance to get in there!!! YAY!!! But I hope u guys get together again!! (if I dont meet you ;))

  • Victoria

    There are more than 7 billion people living on the planet Earth. How many of them are in love? How many of them dream about love? How many of them believe in love?
    It is so hard to trust other people and so easy to idealize them. And everybody is
    afraid to do a mistake, to choose “the-wrong-one”.
    Two years ago you couldn’t say “I was in love with a girl”, but now you can. That means that next time, when you’ll feel something similar, you’ll be able to recognize your feelings and won’t let a chance pass you by.
    I hope that you don’t regret the decisions you’ve made. Cheer up, have some tea (I guess you’re a professional in this respect). Maybe a chance to find one girl among 7
    billion people seems to be extremely unlikely. But please remember, what people
    say about unlikely things…

    Warm greetings from the Venice of the North (that one with “white” nights
    and Dostojewski).

  • Luca benjamin

    I’ve been looking through all the nice comments you have got Charlie and you may not have a girlfriend but you have a LOT of friends :] good luck and I’m certain you’ll have a new one soon. your friend Luca Benjamin (aka spiffingly British on youtube)

  • Arianne K

    Well, that must suck. I wish the best to you two, you both are such amazing people. Sorry to hear this. I hope nobody gives you shit, hope it all works out!

  • Shayla McLeod

    I wish you and Bryarly the best of luck and I hope you can be best buddies real soon!

  • ForeverCrazy1020

    Lots of love and good wishes go out to both of you. This news broke my heart, but I am glad to hear that you went out on good terms. I hope you’re both doing well. Lot of love!

  • ThatBumpasaurus

    Well… im a bit late with this, i was too busy watching you on YouTube…. erm, there’s not really much I can say except I love you lots,i hope you’re okay and you and Bryarly stay friends :) #MakeTeaNotWar

  • JAMMvlogs

    I’m glad you two are still friends. You are both lovely people, and I love watching your videos. :)

    About the long-distance relationship, I’ve recently gotten into one myself (my boyfriend moved 600 miles away). I’m planning on attending college near him when I graduate from high school in two years, which seems both very close and very far… Anyway, I was wondering if you had any advice? We’re handling it fairly well, but you’ve had experience in this area and I’m wondering what worked and what didn’t. (Anyone else reading this is also welcome to respond.) Thanks.

  • Alice

    I just saw, your newest video. I was so happy, i saw you luagh and smile. I was just sitting there reapeating, he’s ok, he’s ok, he’s ok. I truely liked the new style of video, it left me bubbly and happy inside. Great job! I adore you both and wish you the best!

  • Priyanka

    Oh charlie, I just saw this and I really wish the best for both of you. Keep your chin up love xx

  • Angry Bryarly fan

    Filthy stinking cheat! Did the dirty on Bry and won’t admit it! Absolute shitbag

  • Gabriela

    So sad to hear about the break up but I know you are both lovely mature people that are making thoughtful decisions. I hope fans aren’t making this any harder!

  • horriblekid

    No. Just stop. Charlie is not the type of guy that would ever treat a girl he cared about like that and even if he was its still their business. Leave them be.

  • Melissa

    Charlie, it sounds like you and Bryarly have handled it in a really nice way. When it comes to relationships, I always listen to your “A Song About Love” and I remember how you mention heartbreak. So I think the best advice I could give you, if you’re even reading this, is to take your own advice and take this experience in order to refine yourself (even though you are already a great guy).

    On a side-note: “A Song About Love” is amazing. I still haven’t been in love, and your song helps me know that I don’t need to be with someone just to be in a relationship. Rather, to spend my time wisely, become the person I want to be and wait for the right person to spend my time with. I relate to that song and “Duet With Myself” so much.

    So sorry about your relationship. I hope your heart doesn’t hurt too much from it.

  • Name

    kinda predictable since day one. oh well

  • Teary-Eyed Emotional-Person

    i literally just burst into tears just now…
    i’m too emotional about other people…

  • Ghebrielle

    Hope both of you will find happiness again. I mean love happiness, don’t know if it’s English correct cause I’m Italian, by the way, your speech remind me of the song “Good Life” by Francis Dunnery. Don’t know why, cause I don’t know you, but I feel I little be sad for you both. I pretend to think that love will always win, and I think it is so, maybe with Bryarly itself or maybe be someone else.

    After a long story, not made of distance but of other problems, I find it, the real love I mean, and we are getting married on September. Wish you the best.

    Love will always win.

    Ghebree.

  • Rainbow

    Hope you both are doing well, so glad that I just heard about it now ( like a month later which means that there hasn’t been this big thing about it) Anyways, wish you all the best in your current and future Projects :)

  • Alexis Ramsés Lopez

    I love your nick name ahahha

  • Amy

    So no wedding? What am I going to do with a beautiful £500 lilac puffy floor-length dress!? I can’t even get a refund for the wedding in Florence

  • Anonymous Person

    Well, I suppose this response is a little late.
    Im sorry to hear this. Im glad you guys came to this mutual decision before somebody got hurt. Lots of support for the both of you :)

  • Leighann

    Beautiful. I understand what you are going through completely! I have had to do the same and I am now back in a, much less distant, relationship with him. They are incredibly difficult to maintain!

    Wish you the best in your future, Charlie.

    (:

  • Khadhija

    I hope you’re happy Charlie.

  • Kaitlyn

    I was so happy to see you smiling in your last video. Sorry to hear about the break up. Sending a bunch of hugs.

    Kaitlyn

  • Mrs.danosaurhowell

    I appreciate the fact for you telling us Charlie I hope the best for you and her and hopefully in the future you two will get back together. But for now I hope your happy with your decision. And thank you for introducing a marvelous girl to us when you guys started dating.

  • TheTopzmad

    I am sorry, but also happy for you, because you have a opportunity to meet new people.

  • TheTopzmad

    You were hoping for a wedding? And did you actuly but a £500 dress????

  • DoodleButt

    Awww. :( You two were so cute together!

  • D.W.S.D

    I am so sorry that it didn’t work out between you two! I’m glad to hear that you are still friends, because even though it didn’t work out as a relationship, doesn’t mean you still can’t maintain a happy and healthy friendship! I hope you’re both happy with your decisions and I wish both of you the best in the future, because you never know what will happen! Once again I am sorry to hear that you broke up and I wanted to let you know that I will always support and respect your opinion!

    Lots of love,

    D.W.S.D
    OX ;-D <3

  • hippotalent

    I can’t tell how terrible I feel reading these sad words.Wish you get well soon and we all love you Charlie!Kisses from China <3

  • hippotalent

    Such a cute fan of Charlie xx

  • NerdCrafter13XD

    Awww, thats too bad Charlie. I’ve never been in a long-distance relationship, so I can’t relate. Bryarly did live in the U.S. (i think…) so that must have been hard. I do hope you guys stay close friends!

    Love,
    NerdCrafter13XD

  • Happiestredhead

    You and Bryarly are brave. To make a relationship public when you are famous, especially famous on the scathing a cynical internet is a big step. To also break up and announce it to all those out there is also incredibly brave. I admire you greatly.

  • andymiddlename

    I wonder why neither of them could move… :(

  • Angela Johnson

    I guess this is being an adult.:(

  • Katie Mcgough

    Although its sad, I guess it was for the best. If things were becoming difficult them yeah.. I guess it shouldnt be forced. But your fans are always here for you and (if you needed to) we could all meet up and be a shoulder to cry on! :) x

  • Anna

    I was in a long-distance relationship once and it lasted for exactly one month; it was a complete disaster and it ended badly. You guys did so much better than we did, and I loved the work you did together. Friendship is sometimes harder than love, but I’m sure everything will work out for both of you. Love xx

  • Ruby

    I doing long distance at present. Different continents :( And we intend to continue this for two more years.

    Hope you’re doing alright, Charlie.

  • Ruby

    I’m*

  • FZA.

    Im sorry I did not work and Im really that you guys are still in good terms. Stay strong, time heals the pain. :) x

  • maudiemuse

    awh charlie:( we’re all here for you! and we understand that you want to keep things to yourself about why, stay strong:) :)))) added some chins for ya

  • AngiespeakdumbEng

    what doesn’t kill makes you stronger, stand a little taller, doesn’t mean i am lonely when i’m alone

  • Toni

    AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

  • Blanca Lopez

    i am sorry about that charlie, i am happy that it was a good break up ^.^ hope you get better both of you ^.^

  • Rafaela Corrêa

    Complicated have fellings about another person , i hope you really happy in the future . I like you , i like your videos, you makes me happy. Thanks for everything Charlie .

  • kimberlee

    I’m impressed you’re able to share such personal info to the world. I’d rather crawl into a hole and become a hermit. Good work guy! :)

  • Horan

    I’m sorry to here. At least you’re both happy(:

  • Horan

    *hear

  • Rachel

    Just wanted to share a hopeful message here. The first (and only) guy I have ever had a serious relationship with are still wonderfully close friends. I know people say that it gets more difficult to stay friends the closer the relationship was and maybe that’s true – but it totally can be done. My ex and I still talk every week and are very close. He gets along well with my current boyfriend and we can all hang out and have a blast. Actually, they both came to visit me at the same time this past summer and it wasn’t awkward at all.

    Anyways, my point is that you shouldn’t let what people say you can and can’t do about being friends with your ex stop you. I know first hand that its possible to stay close with someone you were in love with even after the relationship is over. The important thing is that you still care about them.

  • Mo0w

    I have been wondering a few weeks now.. But I’m sad to hear that you broke up. But I’m sure you both find the best boy/girlfriend you deserve and be happy you parted in a good way! Best of luck to both of you :)

  • Andrew

    I’m sorry to hear that happened. I know how you feel; I also recently left a long distance relationship. I’m glad to hear you both remained friends. :)

  • Holly

    I reckon that one day when you are not so far away from eachother you’ll get back together. You two were just so close to perfect as a couple. Im sorry I only found out today!! To the future, Charlie!!! Xxx

  • Grace

    You two are so amazing at how you handled it all !! :)

  • Caitlin :*

    I’m very sad you broke up, but it was for you and Bryarly, so I don’t mind. And you know you’re got lots of people supporting you. Congrats for making it public, that’s a bit risk and you did it. That shows how you cared for each other. But it didn’t work out and so long as you are happy, everyonne’ s happy.

  • Karis

    My heart dropped when i heard about the breakup:( but so long as you’re both happy, thats all that matters:(

  • Karis

    :)*

  • Ana

    I realize I am late in discovering this, but I hope you are coping well. Maintaining a long distance relationship takes a lot of work. My boyfriend and I are only 4 hours apart but we have had months with him in London and me in Atlanta and those we some trying times. It is really impressive that you and Bryarly managed to stay together for years with a long distance relationship between countries. Neither of you are bad people and I hope you both move on to greener pastures. Stay strong.

  • kiki x

    i can’t believe i’ve only just seen this. i’m sorry to hear about it Charlie, but seeing how close you two were before, I’m sure you’ll stay friends. It’ll get better :) xx

  • Katie

    :( I’m sorry to hear that Charlie. I hope you are ok xx

  • Sydni

    hey sorry about that i understand charlieee but i think everything sorts out itself in lifr and someday she will be able to make choices to either live close to u .with u .or just stay near her family .im proud u two (i think) took it a good thing .most people r so hard on eachother .good boy .lol bye charr

  • Iris

    I’m sorry to hear this Charlie. Stay strong :) x

  • Kat

    OH NO HOW SAD. HEHEHEHEHEH.
    loljk, ilysm I hope you’re okay Charlie<3

  • Guest

    I can be your moral support :-) I’m mean if you don’t want it that’s fine I mean you don’t know me but ya

  • kia is ninja

    If you would like to know who is weird enough to write this I’m on Twitter @kiarodriguez111

  • Vivi

    hey, I saw a video about U in Weibo, Do you know Weibo? U R so cute!

  • Maddy

    Dont worry Charlie|| <3 you xx

  • CaringFriend

    I totally understand, and no one should take sides, its awesome you two were able to end on a good note. You are amiable and that is very admirable. :) – @AdventureTimewJ

  • idontwanttobenoseyicareaboutu

    i understand too did you ever kiss if so was she good at kissing

  • kubenchik

    what the hell? is it even your business to ask questions like this

  • sailor1234

    how does the song go? Cheer up Charlie!!

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  • TheMangaka

    Hi :) well, it’s just great to hear that you managed to keep your friendship :) distance can make relationships very hard to maintain but it’s ok as long as both of you don’t suffer :)

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